Love is in the air! I’ve been rocking my Valentine’s nail wraps for weeks, embracing the romantic vibe. But for me, Valentine’s Day isn’t about the commercialized pressure to buy gifts. It’s about something much deeper: celebrating the energy of love in its purest form.
This time of year, nestled between the depths of winter and the burgeoning promise of spring, offers a unique opportunity. We’ve (hopefully!) spent the past few months nurturing ourselves, resting, and slowing down in harmony with the winter season. (If you haven’t been prioritizing self-care, reach out – I’d love to share some tips!) Yet, we can feel the creative stirrings of spring just around the corner, with longer daylight hours and the warmth of summer on the horizon.
Right now, we’re in a liminal space. We can still enjoy the cozy comfort of our “winter caves,” while also tapping into the vibrant energy of love, love, love. It’s the perfect combination!
A Simple Ritual for Self-Love and Connection
This Valentine’s Day, I want to share a simple yet powerful ritual with you – a gift from my heart to yours. Light a candle, soften your gaze, and focus on the flame. As you watch the flickering light, set an intention to send love to yourself and to everyone around you, even those who challenge you the most.
Let the flame capture your attention. Imagine a world where love and kindness permeate everything. Visualize yourself moving through your day, enveloped in a vast, loving energy field. Consciously send this loving vibration to your loved ones – think of it as blowing them a loving kiss of energy.
Next, extend that same loving vibration to anyone you’ve felt at odds with. This could be a family member, a colleague, or even a public figure you’ve never met. Send them that loving energy and…smile!
The Power of Unconditional Love
Now, gently close your eyes and tune into how you feel. Settle into that energy of unconditional love. Be present in this moment, savoring the feeling, relishing the vibration of love. This is the true spirit of Valentine’s Day – not the gifts, but the profound connection to love itself.
This practice isn’t just for Valentine’s Day. You can return to it whenever you need a boost of love, connection, or peace. It’s a way to cultivate a loving heart and to radiate that love outwards into the world.
Cultivating a Loving Heart
Cultivating a loving heart is a lifelong journey. It requires conscious effort and intention. Some days it will feel easier than others. But every time we choose love, we contribute to a more loving world.
You’ll hear me say this time and again, it always starts with self love and this simple ritual is a really simple way to show yourself some self love. But there is no reason to keep it all to yourself, you can just as easily share it with your romantic partner or your BFF and let the contagious energy of love keep on rippling out around you.
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